an announcement

Yes. Hi. Welcome.

I'M PREGNANT!

First things first:

His due date is November 5th.

So I am 22 weeks/5 months!

ITS A BOY!

His name is Boden. 

And heres some things to get you all caught up!
-No, we were not trying.
-The first thing I said after I got a positive test: "No FUCKING way!"
-We got pregnant the week of our wedding.
-I am seeing a midwife. I like her but I miss my old doctor so much.
-I was 95% positive it was a girl. This pregnancy was almost identical to Alikah. How I felt, my symptoms and cravings & how I was carrying had me convinced it was a girl.
-We found out it was a BOY on June 21st, Harper's first birthday! He must have wished for a brother ;)

So this little guy is definitely a trickster. 

After we found out it was a boy I made Harper a onesie that says, "I turned ONE and all I got was a little brother."

Both of my parents reacted exactly how I thought they would. My mom was almost word-for-word.
My dad didnt get it at first and then said, "You're pregnant again?"
He also added: "You how far along? You waited this long to tell us?! Well, took longer than I expected. One of you needs to get fixed."
I got my mom & sisters reaction on video, so Ill post it her eventually :)
I told my sister in the Philippines to call me and once I said I was pregnant she said, "Sign on to Skype!"

Spencer wanted to tell his parents, so he was in charge of all that..

I still cant even believe Im pregnant! It was hard to keep it secret so long, especially at the very end when we found out it was a boy and I started showing more. I think know what everyone knows these last few months will fly by!

you dont have to read this

Hola. I have started my wedding post. As of right now I think I am going to wait until I get our professional pictures to post it. But we shall see.
Anyways. This may get long. Warning you.

Harper is "real" crawling now. He has transitioned from an army crawl/inch worm to a full on crawl. And he is pulling himself up to his knees everywhere. He also rolled off the changing table the other day. It was scary and I dont want to talk about it anymore so.Hey Guys
Friday Spencer's parents stopped over for a bit and gave us some cute clothes for Harper. They couldnt stay long though because we had to meet Mark in West Bend to drop Alikah off. Ive said this before but our plan is still to let them see her for one weekend a month. Eventually every 2 months. Then we will be getting a lawyer to get full custody, so Marshall will not be able to see her once he gets out of jail.Alikah's newest "Person." They get teeth and legs now. And her signature.
Anyway.
When went into West Bend early on Sunday because we had some shopping to do at Wal-Mart and wanted to go to Pier1 Imports. You guys. I had never been to Pier1. You guys. I am obsessed with it. I spent $80 on reed diffusers, scented gel beads, bath salts, a coffee cup, the cutest fucking elephant salt and pepper shakers, wine glasses and a martini glasses that I am IN LOVE with, a table cloth...I think thats all...maybe not...but almost everything I got was on clearance too but yeah I am now obsessed. Spencer made me go and now he is going to regret it haha.

Tuesday morning Alikah woke up crying. She said she had a bad dream about "Kids being mean to me." It was really sad. I did not like it at all :( Also her bed was soaked. She has been doing great at getting up and peeing at night, but she does still wear a pull-up just in case. But she peed way out of her pull-up. I dont know if it was from the dream or not but I think so.

Tuesday I also rearranged the playroom. I had to take everything out to clean the floor so I just put it all back in different. Still dont love it but its better. Once Harper is back in his bedroom and we dont have the Pack N Play in there, it will be much better.